FetLife was specifically designed to not be a dating site. Instead you find groups local to you and meet people in real life. I know, what a concept, right?
I've met any number of partners via FetLife, but not *on* FetLife if you catch my meaning.
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- 1 day ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: where to meet people?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 519
- 1 day ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: High-Tech Science-Fiction and Magical Fantasy Restraints
- Replies: 6
- Views: 811
Re: High-Tech Science-Fiction and Magical Fantasy Restraints
These qualify more as erotic or orgasmic restraints. I mentioned them to Grace the other day and she said she wanted them. What you have is a then membrane which is placed over a woman's clitoris and Gräfenberg spot which is held in place with an organic adhesive. They can't be removed without the o...
- 1 day ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: What Makes An Image Stand Out?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 268
Re: What Makes An Image Stand Out?
The security of the bondage, the environment, the model's attractiveness, her pose & positioning and, perhaps most importantly, the look in her eyes. I'm aware that these gals aren't in any actual peril, but they're often pretending they are, acting. And sometimes the camera captures that fear, ...
- 1 day ago
- Forum: True Stories for Adults
- Topic: Mental stimulation (M/F)
- Replies: 0
- Views: 371
Mental stimulation (M/F)
Grace has recently begun HRT and one of the side effects she's felt has been hypersexuality; that is, she's horny all the time. Like a teenage boy, except a teenage boy has a respite between orgasms. With Grace, not so much. A few times she's been insatiable. We've been taking advantage of this by b...
- 3 weeks ago
- Forum: True Stories for Adults
- Topic: First time in a straitjacket (M/F)
- Replies: 6
- Views: 4274
Re: First time in a straitjacket (M/F)
....what do you do in summer? Doesn't it get all hot and sweaty in the straitjacket? And do you wash it in the machine, or manually? If it's too hot, neither one of us wants to sit outside, straitjacket or no. In the house we have air conditioning and a fan if necessary; sometimes she gets a bit wa...
- 3 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Public bondage conundrum
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1970
Re: Public bondage conundrum
There was a store in Philly that would do suspension demos on the first Friday of the month. This store used to be a drug store so it had huge windows in the front. We had a local shop with had a "rope night." We expended a great deal of effort putting up HUGE curtains at the front to blo...
- 3 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Videos
- Topic: Helpless in a straitjacket
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1111
Re: Helpless in a straitjacket
She did seem very upset, so I it best to simply keep her this way. However she's been using her toes to look at "How to escape from a straitjacket" vids on TikTok, so I'm growing a bit concerned.
- 3 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Public bondage conundrum
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1970
- 4 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Public bondage conundrum
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1970
Re: Public bondage conundrum
In my mind there's a lot of fiction potential here. She (in my mind it's a gal) doesn't immediately get released, but is kept in the straitjacket because it's evidence. Indeed, our gal goes through a sort of hell navigating the bureaucratic purgatory due to her being straitjacketed. Meanwhile her pa...
- 4 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Videos
- Topic: Helpless in a straitjacket
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1111
Helpless in a straitjacket
Grace is not happy with the new way I'm strapping her into her straitjacket. She thought she couldn't get out before, but it's so much worse now. https://wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/v/mp4/b39e7f51-132b-4527-b678-cf6e114e186f/dhcao6e-1d5fbf6c-1c39-49b7-aa8d-068e629f7f40.VideoQualities.re...
- 4 weeks ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Public bondage conundrum
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1970
Public bondage conundrum
You and your partner go to the grocery store with one of you tied up, perhaps on a leash. The store gets enough complaints that the police are called. So here's the conundrum; If you wind up arrested, what do they do with the tied up individual? Do they untie and then cuff them, or just leave them t...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2793
Re: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
I wasn't referring to the OP. I was referring to the stalker vibes. YMMVNexus wrote: ↑1 month agoOP said it was to be consensual…TheOldPirate wrote: ↑1 month agoI was getting creeped out by the stalker vibes. Seems like the thread is all about non-consent.
- 1 month ago
- Forum: True Stories for Adults
- Topic: First time in a straitjacket (M/F)
- Replies: 6
- Views: 4274
Re: First time in a straitjacket (M/F)
How did you meet her, and how did you open up to her about wanting her to try on the straitjacket? I met her on Match in mid '21. I'd been active in the lifestyle since 2007 so, aside from knowing what I wanted in a partner vanilla-wise, I also knew what I was looking for kink-wise. I brought it up...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Photos
- Topic: More secure straitjacket?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2095
Re: More secure straitjacket?
https://sj.blacksteel.com/no-escape/index.cgi LOL that's where I learned about it. When crossing the arms, be sure to interlock them properly. Don't just place one on top of the other. Pass one sleeve over the opposite bicep. Then take the end of the other sleeve over the forearm of the first and u...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Never lie to your physician
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1425
Re: Never lie to your physician
...in some corners of our little planet, the expectations of protection of privacy under doctor-patient confidentiality laws don't even exist. Very good point. I believe that the US privacy laws are among the best/strictest in the world. In some places it can be potentially deadly to be outed. Some...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Never lie to your physician
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1425
Re: Never lie to your physician
Never to me (I don't get tied up or beat on), but I know plenty of people it's happened to.
There have been a few threads I encountered recently where this was an issue.
There have been a few threads I encountered recently where this was an issue.
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Tied with a tied partner?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 3005
Tied with a tied partner?
This seems to be a relatively common fantasy, being tied up along with a similarly tied partner and left alone to have fun together.
The idea seems kinda hot. Has anyone ever engaged in this and, if so how did it work out?
The idea seems kinda hot. Has anyone ever engaged in this and, if so how did it work out?
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Never lie to your physician
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1425
Never lie to your physician
You've had some kinky fun, and there's some physical evidence, bruises, on your body. And you're going to see your physician. What do you do? Simple answer; tell them the absolute truth. Your doc does not care that you're kinky. And they won't tell anyone; there are medical privacy laws in place. An...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: True Stories For Everyone
- Topic: Almost Got Caught In Self Bondage m/self
- Replies: 15
- Views: 4711
Re: Almost Got Caught In Self Bondage m/self
A surprisingly exciting story. You've definitely got the setting and drama in place, a natural story teller. Still, a few of your descriptions were a bit confusing. Also, it doesn't hurt to do a brief assessment graf, "So there I was, wrapped in tape, gagged, enjoying myself while freaking out ...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2793
Re: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
I was getting creeped out by the stalker vibes. Seems like the thread is all about non-consent.
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: How experienced?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 953
How experienced?
Have you tied someone consensually, or been tied consensually? Or more?
Is this something you fantasize about, hope to engage in some day, or a never-to-be-fulfilled fantasy?
Is this something you fantasize about, hope to engage in some day, or a never-to-be-fulfilled fantasy?
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Bucket List
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3113
Re: Bucket List
I don't get tied up, but my Grace does, often. Here's what we've done; 1) Watch TV while bound and gagged. (multiple times every week) 2) Eaten a meal while bound with or without your hands. (I've fed her more times than I can count) 3) Slept all night bound and gagged. (not all night, but she's spe...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Talk
- Topic: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2793
Re: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
There's a gal who lives in my home who I'm always interested in tying up. And hey, whoa, I actually tie her up all the time! https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/b39e7f51-132b-4527-b678-cf6e114e186f/dhb9fqe-8207ffbc-2ca4-4b4b-b5ad-9954beb7e95e.jpg/v1/fill/w_869,h_700,q_75,strp/w...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Photos
- Topic: More secure straitjacket?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2095
More secure straitjacket?
I recently came across a tutorial which explained how to make a straitjacket more secure. This "cross-wrists" arm method may look less secure, but Grace assures me that it's much more secure, and that she hates it. I am thinking her right hand needs to go under her left arm. Stay tuned. ht...
- 1 month ago
- Forum: TUG Photos
- Topic: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3381