Took a BDSM test online to understand myself more.
Posted: Tue Apr 11, 2023 11:10 am
I've bern doing a lot of thought about my sexual preferences lately. Mainly that vanilla sex and seeing people engage in the act(or even fully nude) generally doesn't really turn me on. I feel like in our marriage our love is to a point where we're able to laugh it off when our sexual experiences don't quite hold up but at the same time I do want my partner to be fulfilled.
This morning I took a BDSM test just to learn more about myself and I can tell they were on the money just by how aroused I was by the answer. According to this test, I'm 100% rope bunny, 95% submissive and 94% brat. 83% rigger and 78% switch. Which is so me it's ridiculous, how often I fantasize about being restrained and being taught a lesson or being put in my place.
Now that I think of it a lot of the art I'm into represent just that. I really like intricate ties and tight bondage in art, but I really, really like it when it involves someone being somewhat humiliated, not in a gross way but in a playful way. Like being dressed as a bunny on Easter or tied in a kneeling position and used as a leg rest while the rigger plays video games. Especially the thought of playfully talking trash and being taught a lesson by being bound tight or having my mouth stuffed with socks/underwear.
If you want to take this test you can do so at https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode . Don't have to post the results if you feel like it's something you want to keep private; I posted mine because I feel discussing this with like-minded people might help me in the long run.
This morning I took a BDSM test just to learn more about myself and I can tell they were on the money just by how aroused I was by the answer. According to this test, I'm 100% rope bunny, 95% submissive and 94% brat. 83% rigger and 78% switch. Which is so me it's ridiculous, how often I fantasize about being restrained and being taught a lesson or being put in my place.
Now that I think of it a lot of the art I'm into represent just that. I really like intricate ties and tight bondage in art, but I really, really like it when it involves someone being somewhat humiliated, not in a gross way but in a playful way. Like being dressed as a bunny on Easter or tied in a kneeling position and used as a leg rest while the rigger plays video games. Especially the thought of playfully talking trash and being taught a lesson by being bound tight or having my mouth stuffed with socks/underwear.
If you want to take this test you can do so at https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode . Don't have to post the results if you feel like it's something you want to keep private; I posted mine because I feel discussing this with like-minded people might help me in the long run.