This made me think a little, since here are some elements that I do love and that really turns me on.
Being tied up by someone who finds you hot, but you aren´t attracted to is very appealing, at least theoretically. It means you are in the hands of someone that wants to do more to you than you might be interested in, and even if I probably would like it in reality, it is still a nice fantasy. My wife and I actually sort of played this scenario once. She tied me up, and I tried to resist when she started to make out with me. Obviously, it is hard to fight back when you are helpless and wrapped in rope, but I did my best (and failed)! It was very intense and we both liked it a lot. Must do it again!
Another scenario that I love, but probably is harder to try with your partner, is to be tied up by someone that you find very hot but that isn´t the least interested in you. I guess I like this idea since I love stories where there is some peril involved (superheroes in death traps and so on), but also because frustration is a factor in why I love bondage.
What do you think about situations when there aren´t mutual attractions? And do you have any thoughts on how to play them out?