Legit question

[Stef]

Okay now, i have a question... How on earth do you meet in person (prefferably) with people with the same interests? (Tugs, bondage etc.) I mean where do you meet people? or How? Any ideas?

[Steak in a Tree]

Obviously some places are harder than others, I've heard fetlife is a pretty good way to find events and such. Obviously nothing is guaranteed, but that's where I'd start.

[bondagefreak]

[mention]Stef[/mention] Really depends on your sexual orientation.
You have Fetlife, Tinder, Grindr, Recon, Tumblr and several other large hookup sites where you can find kinky singles in your country and/or home city. Most fetishes have niche forums/communities which you can browse through.

IMO, you should just join the Greek community on Fetife and find out which sites your fellow countrymen/countrywomen are using.

[Stef]

Thank you for your replies.
Living here in Greece is like living in a isolated village. I'm so interested in meeting people like me, but never got the chance or know how to...

The thing is, (for fetlife i.e.) that i i'm not into hardcore stuff... I'm somewhere in the middle! Definitely not vanilla, neither a hardcore bdsm something something... I just enjoy the occasional bondage games and such, like most people i see here! It's not like i want to live it 24/7, but i'd like to enjoy my fetishes every now and then. I believe that I'm not asking for that much, am I?

Doing things you enjoy is what life is all about

[bondagefreak]

[mention]Stef[/mention]
There are tens of thousands of people in Greece that share your interest in kink and bondage. Every year there are huge fetish parties happening in Athens.

I'm not sure why you think that Fetlife is for hardcore BDSM addicts. I think you need to actually explore the community a bit. Fetlife is an agglomeration of kinksters, TUG entusiasts, foot fetishists, gearheads, etc, etc, etc.
It's a huge community that houses a plethora of micro-communities and splinter groups.
When you join Fetlife, you just need to orient yourself towards the Greek communities that suit your interests.
Minute details and specifications can be added to your profile.
Have fun!

[Deleted User 2261]

FetLife would be my first choice if you are looking for men and women. If it's men, I would go with Recon.

I avoid Grindr and Tindr, only because they're hook up sites and they only want one thing, and one thing only, and I'm not talking about the kink.

DenverKidnap

[Stef]

I've just made a fetlife account to check it out. Let's see....

[bondagefreak]

[mention]Stef[/mention] Good, glad to hear it.
Take some time to explore that community, and try to have fun.

[David Han]

Surprisingly, I met a couple through Facebook. Fetlife too. For tickling torture sessions, on tklfrat.com

[Emma]

I would suggest meeting people in places you would generally meet them--work, school, church, social organizations...and, of course, as others have said, you can check out bondage-themed dating sites.

But i would check out other sites too; after all, a mutual interest in bondage isn't the only thing that will hold a relationship together. You want a partner you're comparable with, outside your bondage life as well as in it. You want to submit to (or dominate) someone you actually get along with, after all...