Getting tied up "professionally"

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Getting tied up "professionally"

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By "professionally", I mean getting tied up by a professional bondage studio.

This is a question directed towards other females, mostly (since most studios I'm aware of focus on females in the ropes), but guys are welcome to chime in as well!

Have you ever felt like you really wanted to get in touch with one of those studios that do bondage and, like, get tied up (assuming you also get photographed/recorded and can't say no)?

Would you do it if you could?


I simply would NEVER ever do it because I do not want my face out there (work/family). I've actually had three professional bondage photographers/riggers reach out to me and ask me if they could tie me up (and not necessarily do a shoot or anything, just for fun), one of which is "rather" popular, but I've always been really wary when it comes to that.

However, sometimes I just get the feeling of, "Fuck, screw it. I love being tied up and I so want to get tied up by x or y model/rigger. I don't care what people say".

It doesn't last too long though because I'm very quick at getting back to my senses, but still...


Who would you want to get tied up by? Where? How? Which studio?

For example, one of my own desires would be to meet VeVe Lane from DoomMaidens (bondage wrestling) and have a match with her. I think she's a really awesome, strong woman, and though she might not be the best rigger, she would still beat the shit out of me at wrestling, that's for sure. The wrestling part honestly seems kind of fun too and is definitely something I'd like to try, even though I know I'd be terrible at it (luckily, physical domination happens to be a kink of mine too). Either way, I'm certain VeVe would have me hogtied on the floor, moaning through a tight gag in no time.



And most importantly, would you actually do it if you had the chance?

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I bounce back and forth about this a good deal too. Real it comes down to who you are as a person and where kink lies in your priorities.

I myself am thinking about making some big life changes on this very topic soon.

If it’s what you want to do. Do it. Times short and don’t take it for granted.

If it’s not. No pressure either.

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I'm usually back and forth on this too. If I knew it would be recorded, then definitely no. I don't like the idea of that either. If I could opt out of that, then maybe. But the idea of just going somewhere so someone I don't know can tie me up is kind of out there as far as how I can spend my weekend.

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Don’t think it would work for me because of the job I have involving taking care of kids and that might look bad on me if it ever got leaked.
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I have given this thought as well, if there was a way to ensure no one could see my face I'd def make getting tied up for a living :D

I'm a fan of trannies in trouble and Steve Villa. I also like some of Serious Male Bondage, if any of these were to reach out I'd love to be their next victim :)
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Post by Reidy »

I'm sure some sites would offer a degree on anonymity. Either wearing masks or they might use a blindfold to cover eyes to protect identities.

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Post by Emma »

If you're going to be tied up by a professional, please do some research on the person/business you're considering. Google whoever you're talking about, and read reviews. Even if they say they won't film you, you won't know for sure. But reading reviews might give you an idea if you can trust them or not.

Safety first, always.
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Another important element would be to always have someone go with you as a chaperone.

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I'm mostly talking about known and established studios that frequently shoot with professional models, not random guys off craigslist. :P

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Kinkmen is the only studio that I know as "professional bondage studio" that I enjoy and obviously I can't help but imagine myself working with them. But since there's not much anonymity that the subs get there, I'm not quite sure if I'll actually go through with it. I mean... chances of it leaking to the public would be low because no one I know would casually browse through bondage porn unless they're into it, which if that's the case then I may consider exposing myself to them. A big no if said person is family or relatives, of course.

I would consider myself a non-risk-taker so I realistically I wouldn't do it. But temptation is a mighty foe... :?
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Post by Handsome Scoundrel »

I wouldn't have a problem with just being tied up. In fact this is one of my backup career plans lol.

Has anyone noticed that most femdom videos out there seem to be either a) very poorly done or b) with lots of nudity and torture? I've been interested in those rare videos where a woman ties up a man and does not twist his berries off and i've been unsuccessful.

Maybe it's time to fill this niche.
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Post by MaxRoper »

[mention]Handsome Scoundrel[/mention]
I completely agree about the lack of enjoyable femdom porn. I've found very little where both parties seem to be enjoying themselves. It's all either some sort of revenge story or else way too sadistic for my taste. Unfortunately, the market most likely isn't there or someone would've done it by now.

Still, it'd be fun trying.

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Post by Emma »

Lady Knotty wrote:
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I'm mostly talking about known and established studios that frequently shoot with professional models, not random guys off craigslist. :P
Established doesn't necessarily mean trustworthy. Go to Model Mayhem, and look for models who work at the sites you're interested in. Ask them how the people at the site treated them.

You can't be too safe.
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Precisely Emma, Alfred Hitchcock was established after all.
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I would not like to be tied up by a stranger, even if they worked for a professional agency. Think it's always better to have a good friend of many years, or a sibling to tie you up. It's better to be safe, than sorry. There are some people out there, who would take advantage of you. :(

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Tieup1 wrote:
11 months ago
I would not like to be tied up by a stranger, even if they worked for a professional agency. Think it's always better to have a good friend of many years, or a sibling to tie you up. It's better to be safe, than sorry. There are some people out there, who would take advantage of you. :(
Exactly!

I think, though, the question was for people who do not have partners. Some can have a trusted friend tie them up, but for many, it's hard to ask someone to do something that has intimate connotations .
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Emma wrote:
11 months ago
Tieup1 wrote:
11 months ago
I would not like to be tied up by a stranger, even if they worked for a professional agency. Think it's always better to have a good friend of many years, or a sibling to tie you up. It's better to be safe, than sorry. There are some people out there, who would take advantage of you. :(
Exactly!

I think, though, the question was for people who do not have partners. Some can have a trusted friend tie them up, but for many, it's hard to ask someone to do something that has intimate connotations .
I get your point, but I still think having a total stranger tying you up, is not good. Plus the fact, you will have to pay for the privilege, is just too much. I think it would be better to do self bondage, than to take a risk. :0

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Post by Handsome Scoundrel »

In America and Canada clinics where opiate addicts can use safely are becoming more popular.

Perhaps soon we will have rooms where people can be safely tied up.
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Handsome Scoundrel wrote:
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In America and Canada clinics where opiate addicts can use safely are becoming more popular.

Perhaps soon we will have rooms where people can be safely tied up.
In bigger cities (Toronto, closest to me) these "tie up rooms" already exist.

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I have some experience in this, my wife actually did some pro modeling for a few web sites. I would say she did 15 shoots with several producers over 2 years.

It has been about 5 years and she hasn't been recognized yet. My only reluctance was tattoos because they are undeniable proof of identity, but short of that no concerns.

On the topic, I can say I would love to be able to tie up willing strangers. I enjoy tying and even playing with my victim, so long as its mutually enjoyable activities. This too is a dynamic because it is impossible to remove the sexual arrousal od tying someone up, even without the actually act occurring.

I would love a job tying people up for their enjoyment. One thing my wife and I enjoy i wheb i tie her up, usually hogtied is a nice body massage. Ill give her a nice boun massage, let her soak up her subspace for a bit then tickle torture her or play with her, depending on the mood, obviously things go from there.

Bottom line if you can make money getting tied up do it. Especially if its a reputable rigger. Or if you justwant to try someones elses rope on come to Boston, I'll make it happen....no strings attached.

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Post by BoundByJimmy »

Very interesting discussion; thanks for raising the question and all of the comments.

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Post by Dpsiic »

Interesting topic.

Firstly nobody is going to want me to model for them. Would I? Maybe, the idea of being paid to be tied up sounds good. Do I care if anyone recognised me? Again maybe, I am very much in the closet about my bondage, but then to recognise me that person must have been looking ar bondage sites to.

My ideal job would be as a professional rigger. Imagine being paid to tie girls up!

Lots of good advice here, as hogrig says tattoos can be a giveaway, good reason not to have them.

Bottom line if you don’t mind the possibility of being recognised and you really trust the person you are going to work with, go for it.

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In these cases you have to go with security ahead before accessing something similar, whether they are known studies or not ..., You can have an unpleasant experience by a bad attacker in a professional studio, as well as an excellent experience with another just be interested in you and after meeting him several times you see that you can trust him.
Then obviously there are the family, friends or work situations of each individual and that may limit the convenience or not of risking taking that step.
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Post by Fesselfan »

Some thoughts about fotos and such from the "other side"...as I have in the past done some shootings in professional context, some as contracted works for some well known sites...

-A professional studio will *always* allow a person to tag along who will watch over you. In fact, most will not shoot with you if you havent someome.
-A contract specifying the use of the pics and/or payments (even if its just "you get the pics as payment") is set up *beforehand*
-Masks are not only great toys...but can be very well used to hide identities ;) For example, you would never recognize her on the street: https://postimg.cc/t7DdDPHb
-There will be a clear agreement about the do's and dont's, again, before the action

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How do you even find this type of thing? I’d love to do business in NYC.

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