A question for the subs

[YourCaptor75]

Just wanted to see any changes in mindset that subs have before and after they have been tied.

Do you feel submissive, then want to get tied?

Do you want to get tied, and then feel submissive once you're trapped?

Do you like to "goad" the dom into tying you?

Do you like to fight and struggle once tied?

Some kind of combination?

Would love to hear the thoughts of some of the subs on the forum, especially the experienced ones. (Perhaps yall's tendency changed over time?)

[RotiferTape]

I guess I want to get tied first then feel submissive. I like to struggle until I realize I can’t escape and then just accept the bondage.

[Terry]

All the above plus I think it looks great on guys. And if done in certain ways, can be quite comfortable also.

[YourCaptor75]

[mention]RotiferTape[/mention] would you say that you're almost testing your bonds? See if you're secure, and if so, settle into a submissive posture?

[mention]Terry[/mention] hell yeah it does. Something about usually geometric patterns of rope on a rounded, muscular male body just makes both pop. Aesthetic as hell, honestly. Tho that might just be the perspective of a rope snob, haha.

Thanks for the input so far folks. More to come, I hope!

[Socksbound]

Really good question,

Although not overly experienced, I’m a naturally submissive person so that is always just under the surface. It means I can drop into headspace quite quickly.

I’m a total rope bunny and love to be tied up so, getting tied up can send me straight to sub headspace.

Being a brat to goad someone into tying you up is half the fun. That gets a stricter punishment.

I like to be pushed out of my comfort zone a little so a stricter position, torturous gag (dirty sock) forced to smell said sock first those sorts of things. I guess that sets the mood to then wriggle and try to escape If possible, even though I’m at my happiest tied up so not really wanting out. Goading also brings the spontaneous element which can sometimes hinder a pre planned experience.

[Svpmissive]

I've always felt naturally submissive. So bandage especially is almost an ironic release. Being physically restrained allows me mentally to let go and relax. I feel at peace knowing that my dom is now fully in control. I am simply to exist and be theirs until they let me go.

[scarfgagged]

I like to tease or talke somebody into tying me up. I usually don't fight while i am being bound. if i am not gag i'll try to annoy my captor, until i get gagged.
After i'm bound and gagged i like to test the bondage. I get soooo disappointed if I can get out,but if i can't i'd struggle a bit and try to scream in my gag.

As i like being left alone for a while, every now and then i scream in my gag to call the atention of my captor, maybe my captor can add another layer to my gag or tighten my bindings

[YourCaptor75]

Seems a few of yall like to make a kind of game of it, be just rebellious enough to increase the restraint/punishment, etc.

That's something I have heard of, but it's honestly so strange to me. Maybe I am just boring? Lol. Personally, I like my rules to be well understood, and followed, and if a sub wants something stricter, they just ask.

I imagine the gamelike aspect of goading your captor, or a role-play aspect could be very satisfying. Maybe in much the same way a dom manipulates, say, ropes to add to the situation, some subs use their little bits of playful rebelliousness to do so.

Or am I overthinking? Lol

[scarfgagged]

I have to say that i've never been into a dom-sub relation.
What i've described is more a game to let my captor know tight and thorough I want to be bound.

Of course that if it would be someone like you [mention]YourCaptor75[/mention] it would be different in a way that it is not a "game" is more a relationship between dom and sub.

[GagFan96]

I feel submissive before being tied up but my feeling of submission increases once I'm bound and gagged. I would prefer to directly ask my Dom to tie me up rather then goad them into doing so. Struggling against the restraints and moaning, groaning, and talking into my gag definitely adds to my enjoyment but if my Dom wants me to sit still and be quiet I enjoy doing that as well just not as much.

[Kyle]

If I'm tied up, I'm definitely trying to get out of it. There's a sense of accomplishment if I can escape. And if I fail, knowing I'm trying to get free, but can't, increases the feelings of frustration and helplessness that much more. I wouldn't likely fight the actual tying process, though.

[captured_prize]

Definitely get tied up first. Once I'm bound and gagged, I start feeling and acting submissive. I'll struggle for a bit at first and when I realize there is no escape, I'll accept my captivity.

[Wrappedguy825]

I’d say I feel submissive and wana be tied. Once trapped I obviously feel more submissive. I usually try to dig myself into a hole with the dom and see if I can break free. The best part is trying to fight back while they are tying because that usually means a tighter tie or more layers getting added.

[Ps747]

Hello, not very experienced at all, but I feel submissive toward a specific girl and would then want her to tie me up!

[BoundJana]

Hmm, a very interesting thread!

1. Do you feel submissive, then want to get tied?

Hmmm, no and yes. There are days where I just have a submissive feeling in my stomach, where I crawl over to my gf and ask her to tie me up. However there are also those days where the idea of rope bondage is coming from her.

2. Do you want to get tied, and then feel submissive once you're trapped?

In my case my state of submission starts the moment I feel the ropes on me, so I already submit during the process if being tied up.

3. Do you like to "goad" the dom into tying you?

A tough question. As I said, I have to ask or even beg my gf, everything else would be domming from the bottom.

4. Do you like to fight and struggle once tied?

Obviously. Only then the feeling of helplessness truly rushes through my veins when my body realizes: oh damn, we are really trapped now!

[FacelessMage]

Just wanted to see any changes in mindset that subs have before and after they have been tied.

Do you feel submissive, then want to get tied?

Do you want to get tied, and then feel submissive once you're trapped?

Do you like to "goad" the dom into tying you?

Do you like to fight and struggle once tied?

Some kind of combination?

Would love to hear the thoughts of some of the subs on the forum, especially the experienced ones. (Perhaps yall's tendency changed over time?)

For me, the act of getting tied really brings out my submissive side. The more I'm bound and the more helpless I become, the more submissive I feel. And it's fantastic lol. Depending on the scene, I like to struggle and try to get out. I love the power transfer aspect of bondage, so the more I try to escape and fail, the hotter it is. Especially if getting teased/played with in the process

[Silkenvixen]

Well if I feel submissive I definitely want to be tied up. And if someone ties me up, I become submissive.
I've tried "goading" the Dom into tying me but it seldom if ever works.

I LOVE to struggle when I'm tied and gagged! That's what it's all about!

Just wanted to see any changes in mindset that subs have before and after they have been tied.

Do you feel submissive, then want to get tied?

Do you want to get tied, and then feel submissive once you're trapped?

Do you like to "goad" the dom into tying you?

Do you like to fight and struggle once tied?

Some kind of combination?

Would love to hear the thoughts of some of the subs on the forum, especially the experienced ones. (Perhaps yall's tendency changed over time?)