A successful Fetlife meet up (M/F) PART 2 CONCLUSION ADDED
Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2018 3:02 am
Before I start the story, I have to put this out there. I am a married man. My wife, over the years, has indulged me less and less in the TUG department, to the point where it barely happens at all. I am no casual bondage fan. I am an enthusiast. I think about it almost all the time. A couple years ago, out of morbid curiosity, I start a fetlife account and put out a few posts inquiring about willing damsels. The story I'm about to tell just happened a month ago, without my wife's knowing. If you continue to read (or if you don't) and are compelled to leave feedback lecturing me on being faithful to my wife, please save yourself the time. I'm the one who has to look himself in the mirror every day. I am the one who had a brutal internal struggle with a mountain of guilt and this unanswered desire for bondage release. Of course, I should have had a discussion with my wife about my issues. But in the end, displaying my cowardice, I could not face her with it. Maybe one day I will muster up the courage to talk to her about what to do about my need for bondage, but I saw an opportunity for fun play, and I just couldn't help myself.
If you made it through all of that, congrats, now here goes the story.
As I said, I made a Fetlife account. On it, I specified that I was not looking for sex, but that I just wanted to “have fun with rope”. Bondage only. This was my miniscule way of trying to salvage some faithfulness to my wife. Over the year or two on Fetlife, I would search out potential damsels in and around my area, and message them with an offer. Every now and then one would respond back with interest, we may message for a week or so, but eventually they would flake out and stop responding. I figured thats just the nature of the beast.
This past Fall, one woman expressed interest, and kept actively responding. She says she’s been to one workshop where she was suspended, but otherwise has little experience with rope bondage, and was very interested in trying some out. She went so far as to say she was willing to meet for play, and we set a date for a few weeks in the future. I would check in every couple of days to go over details of our play, almost to give her a chance to back out. I kept expecting a bail out. I mean, we didn’t even arrange to meet face to face before the play. But she kept giving affirmative responses. It seemed too good to be true.
The day finally arrives. I get us a hotel room for the evening. We are messaging through kik, she gives me updates on how far away she is, I give her the room number. I can’t believe this is going to happen. Finally there’s the knock on the door. I open the door, and yup, it looks like the woman in the few pics she has on her Fetlife profile. “Nat?” I ask. “Yup!” She responds (though that’s not her real name). She has moderately dark blonde hair thats just past her shoulders. She’s a couple inches shorter than me (I’m 5’11), and is just a little curvy, but in ALL the right places. For a random online meet up, I was surprised at just how attractive she was.
I welcome her in and pour her a weak drink of rye and 7up to settle any nerves that may be on edge. I ask her some questions about her bondage experience, what she hopes to get out of the evening, what were her bondage likes, her bondage dislikes, and setting up safety precautions. I give her the opportunity to ask me whatever questions she’d like. Amazingly marriage/relationships never really came up. I honestly didn’t know how I would have answered that. She just asked how long I had been tying, what I liked about it, a few other generic questions.
When that sort of opening “orientation” conversation was drying up, we pretty much got right into it. As I had told her, my plan was to place her in a few different positions, giving her breaks in between if she needed them to stretch, use the bathroom, drink, whatever. In each position she agreed to let me take some photos and videos, in which I asked her to do her best to struggle, gag talk, and act the damsel in distress. For a first timer, she did quite well. But I’m getting ahead of myself.
I tried to start easy, then sort of rotate the difficulty to give her “breaks” even while in bondage. You’ll see what I mean. For the first position I was to tie her hands together in front of her. At this point she had stripped down to just a bodysuit type thing. Think of something a female wrestler would wear, or maybe a one piece women’s swim suit. She places her hands in front, palm to palm, and I loop rope around them horizontally a few times before changing direction with the rope, cinching it vertically. This is the way I always tie wrists and legs, so from now on I won’t describe it each time.
So now her wrists are bound in front of her. With her standing, I tie her legs together at the ankles, and just above the knees. Her first gag is a bandana stuffed in her mouth, with 3-4 strips of duct tape over her lips. She takes it well and giggles a little nervously into it. We are situated on the one side of the bed. This hotel room has a little closet beside the bed, which my imagination came up with a position almost as soon as I had discovered it. I ask her to wiggle herself into the closet, which she does with some effort. I then proceed to tie her bound hands above her head to the closet rod that a few clothes hangers are dangling from on the far side.
This first “easy” position now complete, I snap some photos, then ask her to struggle for the videos. As I said, she does an admirable job for a “newbie”. She lightly mmphs into her gag and pulls at her bonds. She has super cute little toes, and they wiggled on the carpet. I had hoped she would paint her nails, but she said she didn’t have time. She trimmed them up nicely for me, and as I said they were good looking even without the paint, even though I usually am a stickler for polish (have you guessed that I have a foot fetish yet?).
Once I’m satisfied, I let her hands down from the rod and assist her out of the closet. I take off her gag and ask how she’s feeling. She says fine, and I ask if she needs a break or if we could power through the next position, as some of the ropes would stay on and it’d save untying and retying the same things. She’s fine to power through. A trooper already! I untie her wrists, but leave her legs bound.
Now I finally pull her hands behind her back (like we’ve all been waiting for) and tie them together there. I only apply one more rope, and warn her that this elbow tie may be uncomfortable, but that I’d try to ensure she wasn’t in it for long. I don’t push them too far together, but manage to cinch them nice and snug. The gag for this “scene” is something I had picked up recently, and was dying to try out. I will try and include a pic to show you, but its called a stuffed bit gag. Think of a bit gag, but instead of a bar its like a cylindrical pillow. Leather straps and buckle coming out of the ends of the “pillow”. All of it is pink. She opens wide and takes it between her teeth, slight surprise coming from her when I buckle it up tight. Again, now that her bondage for this scene is complete, I move on to taking photos and videos. First I have her struggle while standing up, then help her down onto the bed where she struggles some more.
Again satisfied with this position, I remove her gag and begin untying her. Now she is ready to take a break.
This is proving to be more time consuming to write than I thought! Sorry if I’m being too long winded, just trying to set up as much details/context as I can remember. I think I’ll have to break this into parts, though with the bondage under way, I may only have to have one more part, but I think I’ll end it here for now. I tied her in 3 more positions if you all want to hear more!
If you made it through all of that, congrats, now here goes the story.
As I said, I made a Fetlife account. On it, I specified that I was not looking for sex, but that I just wanted to “have fun with rope”. Bondage only. This was my miniscule way of trying to salvage some faithfulness to my wife. Over the year or two on Fetlife, I would search out potential damsels in and around my area, and message them with an offer. Every now and then one would respond back with interest, we may message for a week or so, but eventually they would flake out and stop responding. I figured thats just the nature of the beast.
This past Fall, one woman expressed interest, and kept actively responding. She says she’s been to one workshop where she was suspended, but otherwise has little experience with rope bondage, and was very interested in trying some out. She went so far as to say she was willing to meet for play, and we set a date for a few weeks in the future. I would check in every couple of days to go over details of our play, almost to give her a chance to back out. I kept expecting a bail out. I mean, we didn’t even arrange to meet face to face before the play. But she kept giving affirmative responses. It seemed too good to be true.
The day finally arrives. I get us a hotel room for the evening. We are messaging through kik, she gives me updates on how far away she is, I give her the room number. I can’t believe this is going to happen. Finally there’s the knock on the door. I open the door, and yup, it looks like the woman in the few pics she has on her Fetlife profile. “Nat?” I ask. “Yup!” She responds (though that’s not her real name). She has moderately dark blonde hair thats just past her shoulders. She’s a couple inches shorter than me (I’m 5’11), and is just a little curvy, but in ALL the right places. For a random online meet up, I was surprised at just how attractive she was.
I welcome her in and pour her a weak drink of rye and 7up to settle any nerves that may be on edge. I ask her some questions about her bondage experience, what she hopes to get out of the evening, what were her bondage likes, her bondage dislikes, and setting up safety precautions. I give her the opportunity to ask me whatever questions she’d like. Amazingly marriage/relationships never really came up. I honestly didn’t know how I would have answered that. She just asked how long I had been tying, what I liked about it, a few other generic questions.
When that sort of opening “orientation” conversation was drying up, we pretty much got right into it. As I had told her, my plan was to place her in a few different positions, giving her breaks in between if she needed them to stretch, use the bathroom, drink, whatever. In each position she agreed to let me take some photos and videos, in which I asked her to do her best to struggle, gag talk, and act the damsel in distress. For a first timer, she did quite well. But I’m getting ahead of myself.
I tried to start easy, then sort of rotate the difficulty to give her “breaks” even while in bondage. You’ll see what I mean. For the first position I was to tie her hands together in front of her. At this point she had stripped down to just a bodysuit type thing. Think of something a female wrestler would wear, or maybe a one piece women’s swim suit. She places her hands in front, palm to palm, and I loop rope around them horizontally a few times before changing direction with the rope, cinching it vertically. This is the way I always tie wrists and legs, so from now on I won’t describe it each time.
So now her wrists are bound in front of her. With her standing, I tie her legs together at the ankles, and just above the knees. Her first gag is a bandana stuffed in her mouth, with 3-4 strips of duct tape over her lips. She takes it well and giggles a little nervously into it. We are situated on the one side of the bed. This hotel room has a little closet beside the bed, which my imagination came up with a position almost as soon as I had discovered it. I ask her to wiggle herself into the closet, which she does with some effort. I then proceed to tie her bound hands above her head to the closet rod that a few clothes hangers are dangling from on the far side.
This first “easy” position now complete, I snap some photos, then ask her to struggle for the videos. As I said, she does an admirable job for a “newbie”. She lightly mmphs into her gag and pulls at her bonds. She has super cute little toes, and they wiggled on the carpet. I had hoped she would paint her nails, but she said she didn’t have time. She trimmed them up nicely for me, and as I said they were good looking even without the paint, even though I usually am a stickler for polish (have you guessed that I have a foot fetish yet?).
Once I’m satisfied, I let her hands down from the rod and assist her out of the closet. I take off her gag and ask how she’s feeling. She says fine, and I ask if she needs a break or if we could power through the next position, as some of the ropes would stay on and it’d save untying and retying the same things. She’s fine to power through. A trooper already! I untie her wrists, but leave her legs bound.
Now I finally pull her hands behind her back (like we’ve all been waiting for) and tie them together there. I only apply one more rope, and warn her that this elbow tie may be uncomfortable, but that I’d try to ensure she wasn’t in it for long. I don’t push them too far together, but manage to cinch them nice and snug. The gag for this “scene” is something I had picked up recently, and was dying to try out. I will try and include a pic to show you, but its called a stuffed bit gag. Think of a bit gag, but instead of a bar its like a cylindrical pillow. Leather straps and buckle coming out of the ends of the “pillow”. All of it is pink. She opens wide and takes it between her teeth, slight surprise coming from her when I buckle it up tight. Again, now that her bondage for this scene is complete, I move on to taking photos and videos. First I have her struggle while standing up, then help her down onto the bed where she struggles some more.
Again satisfied with this position, I remove her gag and begin untying her. Now she is ready to take a break.
This is proving to be more time consuming to write than I thought! Sorry if I’m being too long winded, just trying to set up as much details/context as I can remember. I think I’ll have to break this into parts, though with the bondage under way, I may only have to have one more part, but I think I’ll end it here for now. I tied her in 3 more positions if you all want to hear more!