ANSWER: I would rather be bound up and gagged by a crush. There is a little less interpretation to the situation and you are just along for the ride. There are far more questions if you just "find" your crush bound and gagged somewhere haha.
WOULD YOU RATHER be bound, gagged, teased, and used by your sibling and their friends at a slumber party OR have your sibling bound, gagged, teased, and used for entertainment by you and your friends at a sleepover?