Stories of Tie Up Games

This feels fun in theory, but is too risky in practice. Though I was talking to a guy the other day who said he'd done... naughty things... in our work building, so maybe it's possible.

My answer for this is only an iota more exciting than the other one. When I was young I vaguely remember lightly tying a friend's ankles together as part of some sort of game, but he didn't seem to be feeling it so it didn't go any further. I remember this because I already knew by this point that I...

I guess myself, but that doesn't count.

I don't actually have any memory of being tied up in any context other than actual TUG/bondage. Which I guess makes the first other person who tied me up, a guy who I met at a rope bondage class I attended once.

Not from this site, but I have encountered people on other websites of a similar vein, that I also know IRL. In some cases I just let it be, as it was someone I was interested in doing stuff with and it seemed far too awkward to bring up. One guy I eventually did bring it up with, and we have since ...

I was doing some self-bondage earlier and decided to try a layered gag. First, a ball-gag https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/51647191382_08b7b1385c_h.jpg Then some socks https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/51648021916_f43095fe22_h.jpg And a lot of tape https://live.staticflickr.com/65535/5164804920...

Damn, I wish. Somebody tried to set up a kink society at my university but they mostly just got made fun of and I don't think it ever amounted to anything. Though I have met a few other kinky people through university. Good place for experimentation, I suppose. Amusingly, found several while playing...

Ah, so many good options. Suppose I'll go with the crowd and say D

Well, you could always post some other photos with mitts on another thread...

On that subject, I tried some mitts for the first time the other day. Pretty nice, actually. Enclosing the whole hand is interesting, feels quite different to cuffs. Maybe there is something to all this pup stuff...

Yeah, generally anything that seems both bad and too real. If it's a scenario that wouldn't be good in real life, I want it to be clear it isn't real, acting quality be damned. I also don't like fictional scenarios which include something really bad happening, hence why horror movie scenes are often...

Yeah, method of escape is very important. If you're using rope, you want some good quality scissors/shears Similarly, be very aware of the risk of cutting off somebody's circulation. Other people have written full-on guides on this. If you want to try something particularly new or weird, look it up ...

This is something I'm genuinely struggling with. I'm trying to be more "dominant" but it feels like everything I come up with either sounds silly or perverted. Though I guess the latter's kinda fine in some circumstances...

Yeah, it definitely goes up and down. Sometimes I just don't feel like it for a while.

Yeah, I can get the association.

I had a chunky leather bracelet for a while which in retrospect kinda reminds me of a handcuff.

Insecurity is certainly a big one. I want either a reliable TUG partner, or a pool of reasonably reliable people, who wants roughly the same things I want. I also have to trust that person, and they need to trust me - if I want to tie someone up or get tied up, a lot of trust is needed there. I have...

Someone else can probably give you better answers, but my general take: In a way, everything helps. The more parts you bind, the less someone can move, the less likely they are to escape. Tying the knees does definitely make movement harder. Now granted as long as you can stand up and keep your bala...

Some leather handcuffs. I think I ordered them from Amazon, and was quite worried about being seen; I ordered them to an Amazon locker rather than where I actually lived, and deleted the order from my history as soon as they'd arrived. They were a bit on the cheap end, but they still hold up fine.

Definitely still interest, there's some great stuff in this thread

Nice pics

I haven't tried this myself, though I've seen stuff about it and I'd like to some day. Requires a lot of trust. Generally with a super-intense mummification you either pick a very breathable material or make sure there are nose holes (sometimes people actually put little tubes into the nostrils). It...

I've bought a few items, but nothing too extravagant - a ball gag, some nicer rope, etc. Probably goes into the hundreds if you add it all up, but not too much. I'll definitely buy something big at some point in my life though. Probably when I have a permanent place and a lot more disposable income....

It's a really fun idea, I've seen a few pics of it around. Seen some make an active effort to "match" the bondage to the costume, which is especially good. Kind of implying a story to the picture, even if there isn't one actually written. It's not something I've ever tried myself, but I gu...

Amusingly I've started using it recently and my For You page has had a couple of kink videos on there without me having to look for them. Spooky stuff, algorithm. Everything has to be very softcore and avoid certain keywords though - TikTok doesn't want you posting about NSFW topics, and it's better...

I have no mention of it on my Tinder profile. I'm looking for a romantic long term relationship on there, and mentions of kink would probably go the wrong way. Sure, ideally I'd like a LTR with a person who is also in bondage, but I can't be too picky. I do have something along the lines of "ma...

I'm also autistic myself. I'm in my early twenties, and only got my diagnosis about a year ago. My parents and I all suspected it for quite some time, and I was considering pursuing a diagnosis by myself before they finally suggested I get assessed. To me it wasn't too surprising as I already heavil...

Yeah, sex stuff is simply where a huge chunk of the market for bondage supplies is.

I do agree that a lot of the stuff you find at mainstream sex shops isn't very good. Their website equivalents are better, but still limited.

I have limited experience, but I'll still stick to the more out-there stuff: 1. Suspension - it looks really cool, and must be an interesting experience. However, doing it safely and properly is quite complicated, you need a good anchor point and an experienced rigger. 2. Be part of a large "ev...