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by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: How did you find your tie up partner? (m/m)
Replies: 3
Views: 3177

Re: How did you find your tie up partner? (m/m)

While I still don't have a consistent long-term tie-up partner, the few people I've done stuff with came from a small variety of different places. It's worth noting that some of these were sexual, as the majority of people looking for this kind of thing want that; however, there are some people out ...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Hobby Groups
Replies: 6
Views: 3202

Re: Hobby Groups

A few universities here (UK) have kink/fetish socities. It's a difficult balance to get right since official Student Union-approved groups have some definite rules they have to stick to and it's a topic that easily gets into NSFW areas, but it can be done. A focus on education seems to be the key; a...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Tom Holland, Sept 23]
Replies: 81
Views: 114297

Re: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Chandler/Grayson Riggs Xmas, Dec 25]

Ah, some nice pics, great work by Bowen there. Chandler is always a great choice, as I'm sure I don't have to tell you. His brother looks nice tied up too
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Ever Want to NOT Get Untied?
Replies: 25
Views: 11615

Re: Ever Want to NOT Get Untied?

Yes, I've definitely felt like this. It's mostly in cases where I'm just being tied up and nothing else "intense" is happening while I'm tied up. A while back I was at a rope bondage practice session and ended up just having a casual conversation for maybe half an hour with my arms tied be...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: UK members
Replies: 167
Views: 184491

Re: UK members

Mrhashbrown101 wrote: 1 year ago 20m from near Nottingham lol
Want to learn a bit more about bondage so if anyone wants to chat just pm me :)
I know I'm reacting to this pretty late (whoops) but I'm based in Nottingham myself.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Over the shoulder carries
Replies: 28
Views: 11584

Re: Over the shoulder carries

I'm too big for most people to carry like that, but I absolutely love the idea.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Is rope bondage as dangerous as everyone says?
Replies: 19
Views: 7704

Re: Is rope bondage as dangerous as everyone says?

This is why I like/prefer the term RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Notably "risk aware" instead of "safe" because even if you're doing everything right there is still some risk. You need to know what the risks are, and do your best to mitigate them. Yes, any form of bondage ha...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Anchor points in a home.
Replies: 6
Views: 2510

Re: Anchor points in a home.

Yeah, I would be very careful about suspension points. Granted partial suspension is less intense, but still; human bodies weigh a fair deal and physics is a cruel mistress. If you do install such a point, find a way to test it (with an equivalent weight) without putting anyone at risk. Even without...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Vet Wrapped Up (M)
Replies: 4
Views: 5676

Re: Vet Wrapped Up (M)

Ooh, a very interesting tie. Quite the cute little kitten :P
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Tom Holland, Sept 23]
Replies: 81
Views: 114297

Re: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Justin Bieber, Nov 12]

I suspect many people have wished to gag Bieber over the years
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Rope supplier
Replies: 13
Views: 4071

Re: Rope supplier

The type and size of rope you want certainly varies. First stuff I got was some cotton rope from Lovehoney. They're a well-established brand, so buying from them felt easier. The stuff is very soft; this does feel more comfy, but it's also quite weak, and can stretch a bit. Not the easiest to untie ...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Gender specific
Replies: 26
Views: 8088

Re: Gender specific

I'm attracted to guys and generally I only want to tie or be tied by guys. I can make some exceptions though, like if it's just for rope practice.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Knockout, Fight or Surrender?
Replies: 21
Views: 8416

Re: Knockout, Fight or Surrender?

Ultimately whatever makes sense for the scene. I think my favourite is probably fight/struggle. Maybe the victim even manages to get a hit in on the captor and angers them, making them tie them up tighter as payback. Knockouts can be a good "simple" solution. As people have pointed out els...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Tied to a bed.
Replies: 22
Views: 14732

Re: Tied to a bed.

Face up, x is definitely my default, that feels like the "classic". Other positions can be good for certain scenarios; I have been tied in a Y before (with the feet not actually secured to the bed) for tickling with significant squirming. Face-down can be good for... intimate activities.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Tom Holland, Sept 23]
Replies: 81
Views: 114297

Re: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Chandler/Grayson Riggs, OCT 30]

This is a good one. Two brothers in distress together is a fun scenario
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Bed Bondage Setup
Replies: 6
Views: 4835

Re: Bed Bondage Setup

Ooh, that's a fun one. I still want to try something like that one day.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Does bondage make anyone more attractive?
Replies: 7
Views: 3350

Re: Does bondage make anyone more attractive?

I think there's certainly a degree of truth to this. Honestly I think it can function on a wider scale though. There are some people I've met and haven't been attracted to at first but have later become more attracted to as I got to know them are learned positive things about them. Or seeing somebod...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Rope Practice M
Replies: 6
Views: 4415

Re: Rope Practice M

Nice, that is a lot of ropes.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Coworkers
Replies: 21
Views: 7300

Re: Coworkers

I have been tied up once by someone who works at the same place as me, but we very rarely interact in a professional capacity.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Seeing yourself tied up?
Replies: 51
Views: 15891

Re: Seeing yourself tied up?

Looking at myself tied up is kinda nice, but pretty underwhelming. The fact that almost all the pictures I had (delete most of them) were self-bondage doesn't help, as I generally find that underwhelming also. I'd say it ranks below seeing a good picture of somebody else tied up, and way below actua...
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Weird Ghost Fantasy?
Replies: 9
Views: 4458

Re: Weird Ghost Fantasy?

I'll be honest, I have plenty of supernatural fantasies, appeals to me for some reason. Ghosts have indeed been among them.

The image of ropes seeming to move on their own to chase and bind you is quite an interesting one.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: Suggestions and Comments
Topic: Tag for non-binary people?
Replies: 3
Views: 4926

Re: Tag for non-binary people?

Personal opinion, but N or NB seems reasonable to me. You could clarify their pronouns within the post itself if you wish.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: How do you spend your time when you are tied up?
Replies: 21
Views: 8538

Re: How do you spend your time when you are tied up?

Mix of struggling and relaxing. I like to struggle a bit, and often the person tying wants to see it, but I can only do it for so long. I'm never really genuinely trying to escape, unless we're at the end and I'm being untied anyway.
by ExcessivelyCurious
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Best Place To Find TUG Partner
Replies: 12
Views: 5102

Re: Best Place To Find TUG Partner

It will definitely depend on your location, but you could look on Fetlife. There are a lot of regional groups and events on there, and those let you meet people casually first.