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by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Introducing myself
Replies: 19
Views: 10378

Re: Introducing myself

Welcome! Pictures look good, like the look of that hogtie.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Random objects you've thought about being tied to.
Replies: 3
Views: 2548

Re: Random objects you've thought about being tied to.

Honestly anything that can be described as a "study framework". Climbing frames, railings, certain sculptures...

Maybe the inside of one of those rolling cage/trolley things people transport stuff around on.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: A Bondage Item used in a Non-Bondage Setting?
Replies: 5
Views: 6208

Re: A Bondage Item used in a Non-Bondage Setting?

Blindfold / sleep mask is definitely a dual purpose I've used too.

The best would be something obviously bondage-y though. Can't think of a good one for that
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage board games
Replies: 15
Views: 9066

Re: Bondage board games

Not quite a board game, but I have known people who played strip Jenga. Could probably incorporate a bondage element there. The easiest approach would be to just play a totally normal board game (two people makes it easier) then winner ties up the loser (and does whatever they fancy with them). Come...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: OUTRAGEOUS BANNERS. WTF?!
Replies: 9
Views: 5307

Re: OUTRAGEOUS BANNERS. WTF?!

I shall refrain from restating my opinions on these banners, as we don't want to have that argument again. But ultimately, the banners were already bad enough for me (and others) to turn signatures off entirely, just to avoid them. If we're allowing banners (which it seems we are) then people should...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Ideas for self-bondage (M)
Replies: 5
Views: 4659

Re: Ideas for self-bondage (M)

Main advantage of a hotel room is that you have it to yourself and can be pretty sure nobody will intervene ;) Yeah, vet wrap can do some very nice bondage. Ball gags are very fun too though... The 'classic' way to incorporate a vibrator is to secure it somewhere pleasant, but not quite pleasant eno...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: My twink self bound and gagged (M)
Replies: 34
Views: 28346

Re: My twink self bound and gagged (M)

Nice. Frogtie is definitely an under-used position
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Tying someone else while in a relationship
Replies: 9
Views: 5338

Re: Tying someone else while in a relationship

Communication and trust are vital in a relationship. For most people, secret bondage sessions with other people would certainly qualify as cheating. I do know at least one couple where they discussed it and, since one is into bondage and the other really isn't, agreed they could have a somewhat-open...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: Welcome to the Board!
Topic: Rules and Guidelines ***UPDATED: August 4th, 2021***
Replies: 62
Views: 1664765

Re: Rules and Guidelines ***UPDATED: August 4th, 2021***

I don't think there's much more to say on this topic, but: I spent plenty of time on plenty of forums in the past, and still use some now (although they're less common nowadays). Having a limit on the size of banners was/is a very common rule. Many people find them annoying and a limited size is a f...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Self tie at night/all night
Replies: 5
Views: 3377

Re: Self tie at night/all night

I've done plenty of self-bondage late at night, but I've never fallen asleep in it. Did try a few times and didn't work. I tend to toss and turn a lot in my sleep so I guess it's just not compatible for me.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stout's Celebs (Various M+) [Update: Tom Holland, Sept 23]
Replies: 81
Views: 114277

Re: Stout's Celebs (Various M+)

Love your edits. At least here you don't have to deal with the weird moderation from mainstream websites.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Play Parties
Replies: 6
Views: 4644

Re: Play Parties

I am aware of some such events that happen around my area occasionally. I've never gone to one though, partly because I'm very anxious and socially awkward, partly because I'm not really the 'target audience' for most of them and also because they all seem to be at locations that are in the middle o...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Any bondage position that you regret never trying? [PG13]
Replies: 11
Views: 8658

Re: Any bondage position that you regret never trying? [PG13]

Suspension bondage can be done relatively safely (there's always some risk in any bondage, and suspension moreso), but it requires a lot of care and attention to safety - you need a proper installed suspension point, and particularly strong rope, for one. You also need to be even more careful about ...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Most "bondage overkill" scenario?
Replies: 13
Views: 11745

Re: Most "bondage overkill" scenario?

If you want overkill, layers are probably the easiest way. Could wrap in clingfilm/shrink wrap, then mummify with duct tape, then maybe ropes or straps over that. Could throw a sleeping bag, and then some more ropes, in there too.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: How It All Started
Replies: 16
Views: 10915

Re: How It All Started

Like many other people, certain stories (mostly on TV shows) piqued my interest even at a rather young age. This eventually bought me to YouTube, where I found quite a few tied up videos. As the years went on my interest persisted and I found other websites with more to offer. And as I grew up, this...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: How is bondage different for men and women?
Replies: 12
Views: 7361

Re: How is bondage different for men and women?

Yeah, ultimately a good chunk of it is still the same. People do it for fun - often but not always sexually. Some enjoy being tied up, others tying other people up. That part at least exists regardless of gender.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Merry Christmas [M]
Replies: 12
Views: 13631

Re: Merry Christmas [M]

Oh, to receive a bound and gagged pup for Christmas... ;)
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Best way to find IRL TUG partner?
Replies: 10
Views: 7903

Re: Best way to find IRL TUG partner?

It kinda depends how patient you are, and how brave you're willing to be. Dating/hookup apps can work. I've had success with Grindr. But it is worth saying that yes, there is more risk to meeting up with randoms, and bondage adds another layer of risk. Fetlife can be useful - in theory, the best app...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Clothing?
Replies: 12
Views: 7618

Re: Clothing?

I think it rather depends on what's happening. I'd default to fully clothed. If things get intimate, some clothing will inevitably come off - whether before or after tying happens.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Partner not into it
Replies: 14
Views: 7456

Re: Partner not into it

When it comes to something like this, boundaries, communication and understanding are very important. If your partner isn't into bondage, you're just going to have to accept that. If bondage is very important for you, you're probably going to have to have a conversation about it with your partner. O...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What’s your opinion on hoods in bondage?
Replies: 11
Views: 8370

Re: What’s your opinion on hoods in bondage?

I can certainly see the appeal. They kind of provide a further level of "confinement" for the captive. However, I do like to see the person's face, so if there is one I'd only want it to present for part of the session/scene.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bratty Subs
Replies: 18
Views: 11806

Re: Bratty Subs

On the rarer occasions when I do take a more dominant role, I do like a bratty sub. A person being annoying and then taking that person, controlling them and tormenting them, and probably shutting them up; that scenario is quite appealing to me. And it feeds so well into the "punishment the sub...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Is Bondage itself humiliating?
Replies: 17
Views: 12707

Re: Is Bondage itself humiliating?

As other people said, it depends a good deal on the exact scenario. Which I guess means that bondage itself isn't inherently humiliating. The defeat or submission that leads to it can be, and of course you can do plenty of humiliating things to a person who is in bondage, but it's also entirely poss...
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: M/M READERSHIP POLL: BLOOD RELATIVES VS STEP FAMILY
Replies: 15
Views: 14109

Re: M/M READERSHIP POLL: BLOOD RELATIVES VS STEP FAMILY

I don't really make any distinction between blood and step family. I know plenty of other people think differently, but anything that icks me out with blood relatives still icks me out with step relatives

That said, I don't mind family tugs as long as they stay purely platonic.
by ExcessivelyCurious
2 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Secondary Bondage Attractions
Replies: 32
Views: 19381

Re: ?Attraction to the mundane?

Yeah, I quite like casual attire in my TUGs. Just a guy in a nice, normal outfit can get me quite turned on. If anyone remembers TieGuyUK, a lot of his pics were very much "my speed".