I can think of three, two of them in German:
Madonna: Hanky Panky (M/F, female submissive narrator)
Element of Crime: Sperr mich ein (F/M, male submissive narrator)
Ärzte: Sweet sweet Gwendoline (F/M, M/F, male switcher narrator)
I hope that way of gender tagging makes sense
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Oh, and PS: Of course there's a lot of BDSM songs, but I'd like them to at least mention the tie-up part. E.g. Madonna is more about spanking, too, but it qualifies for the line "tie my hands behind my back and ooh, I'm in ecstasy" -- we can all relate to that, can't we?