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Womanly thing🤔

Post by faye2013 »

So I had a thought yesterday and this is mainly a question for the ladies but I will have a question for the guys too.

For me, when it's that time of the month. I'm in pain and I sometimes pass out. I've always said I don't want to do bondage during this time as I'd much prefer to do bondage especially being tied up after it's finished.
Do you ladies feel the same way? Or do you get tied up anyway?


Question for the guys, when your partner/friend is having that time of the month if they say they don't want to be tied up do you respect that and give them love and cuddles? Or do you beg to tie them up? Or do you beg them for them to tie you up?
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Post by wannabetiedup »

I don't think there is a one answer fits all.
I had an ex girlfriend that was at her most horny when on her period, and was the opposite of put off sex!

My now wife on the other hand just wants love and cuddles and that's fine too.
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wannabetiedup wrote: 1 year ago I don't think there is a one answer fits all.
I had an ex girlfriend that was at her most horny when on her period, and was the opposite of put off sex!

My now wife on the other hand just wants love and cuddles and that's fine too.
Thanks for replying :D Yeahh I guess everyone is different of course just made me think 🤔 of others opinions
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Post by wannabetiedup »

That's been my experience anyway. I hope it's helpful
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I think the simple answer is you must respect your partner’s wishes. If they do not want to do bondage at that time of month then so be it. Wait until they are ready and comfortable again. If they are happy you carry on then that is what they want.

The woman’s choice pure and simple.
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I'm married to another woman and we have synchronized , so we both feel shitty at the same time. Usually we curl up together, maybe with a hit (warm) water bottle between us. I've never really known anything else as I've never had a proper boyfriend (well maybe aged 14/15 when I was.experimenting and hadn't realised yet. At that time I lived with my mum and sister and we'd all.synched there.too.
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Dpsiic wrote: 1 year ago I think the simple answer is you must respect your partner’s wishes. If they do not want to do bondage at that time of month then so be it. Wait until they are ready and comfortable again. If they are happy you carry on then that is what they want.

The woman’s choice pure and simple.

That's very true, I 100% agree! 💖
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Alisonlovesropes wrote: 1 year ago I'm married to another woman and we have synchronized , so we both feel shitty at the same time. Usually we curl up together, maybe with a hit (warm) water bottle between us. I've never really known anything else as I've never had a proper boyfriend (well maybe aged 14/15 when I was.experimenting and hadn't realised yet. At that time I lived with my mum and sister and we'd all.synched there.too.

Aww that's really sweet, it's good you both respect each other 💕 it how a relationship should be. Loving and respectable
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I usually don’t. During that time i feel shitty and the last thing i wanna do is move so i just avoid it.
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Post by Reidy »

There is an easy answer to this. You do what makes the woman feel comfortable. She doesn't want to do anything but rest up, then that is exactly what you do.
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Reidy wrote: 1 year ago There is an easy answer to this. You do what makes the woman feel comfortable. She doesn't want to do anything but rest up, then that is exactly what you do.

Thats what I also agree with. Being a women myself, I hate it when I feel forced/underpressure to be tied up as its been awhile since the last session. Plus its made me feel like I'm letting the other person down and I feel guilty because of it .
So I'm really glad you said this 💖
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