About me and my tug experience

[16cftelesales]

You can say that I am a fan of BDSM, but I dont actually feel any beauty in it, nor it is a way to release pressure . For me, this is only an activity which is very close to my sexual desire.

It is close, but not exactly my desire. My deepest desire is those kidnapping scenero, tied up especially gagged, handgag, strangle....Bdsm is just maximazing the detail within it.

I dont know if you guys understand , I like the experience of kidnapped or being kidnapped, taking control or being controlled. Not matter it is a movie, or few lines in a fiction, or even a dialogue which mention "gagged", these turn me the fuck on, i cant find such excitment in any normal porn.

So i like those kidnapping scenerio in movies which is not involved in any sexual motive, the character just being helpless and in distress.

I hate crying damsel, this is a turn off to me. I like damsel who is mouthy, rational and somehow cocky, which give every reasons for the captor to give her a decent gag. Not those stupid fifty shade of gray, just playing tied up scene for the sake of tied up.

I never expose my sexual desire in real life, imagine normal person meet an attractive lady, they picture her as shirtless and making love with her, while for me, i picture her to be bound and gagged, and I stay bound and gagged aside her....people would like, what the fuck?

That is me, i hope some of you guys or girls can understand me. I will sum up my tug experiences at below, welcome to comment and share your experience too!

[Nexus]

Welcome to the board. Rest assured there are plenty of people who share your feelings, including many members of this board. Personally I’m with you in the sense that when I see an attractive woman my first fantasy is of her bound and gagged, not having sex with her. I just have no real interest in being tied myself.

[sami200456boyfriend]

Welcome to the club friend

[16cftelesales]

Welcome to the board. Rest assured there are plenty of people who share your feelings, including many members of this board. Personally I’m with you in the sense that when I see an attractive woman my first fantasy is of her bound and gagged, not having sex with her. I just have no real interest in being tied myself.

I used to have no interest of tying myself, but once i feel the way which the girl are suffering, it gives me a deeper taste of bound and gagged

[16cftelesales]

Welcome to the club friend

thx,

[16cftelesales]

I am a loud mouth boy who always jokes around for attention. When I was still in primary school, I had a friend called Victor, we always went to each other's house to play. At that time I was already a chatty boy, I remember I was kind of having a discussion between Victor, his mom and my mom, and I had things to say, I had something to point out, then I kept saying, " Can I talk? Can I talk?"  Victor's mom was getting a bit annoyed and replied to me, "Just talk ! you are not gagged, I guess? " My mom burst out laughing after Victor's mom said that, and then talked to her, " You can't wait to gag him, right? Just admit it, you are not the first person who wants him to be silent..."  I didn't remember what his mom exactly said afterwards, her face was embarrassing and laughing....I regret that I did not go further on this topic at that time. But anyway....

When I grew up, about my early 20s, my girlfriend used to go jogging a lot at night, though I am not a fan of sports, I still jogged with her almost every night.
One night she was with me in a family gathering, my mom asked her to consider not to go jogging at night, it is dangerous and blah blah blah...And my aunt, who always brings out crazy topic, she asked my girlfriend, "You will not be that confident once you get kidnapped, trust me." 
My girlfriend is somehow a loud mouth like mine, like to joke around, she replied to my aunt,"Don't worry, I was a scout and I am quite familiar with knots. To me, everything will be fine only if I bring a clean towel when I go out at night."
What? We all asked her, because it was not making any sense.
She then explained, "If I get kidnapped, I am brought to the back of the van, I know I have a high probability that I will be gagged, due to I am a chatty bitch like my boyfriend. But you know what, take my towel before you gag me, I am a huge fan of hygiene, so..."
Everybody was laughing, but for me, It was quite a shock to me.
I was not certain if  she is into tied up stuff, because she never mentions this kind of thing when we are together.
After several weeks of that gathering,  I went jogging with her, I asked her, "You brought two clean towels, aren't you?"
She looked curious and asked me why.
I was a bit disappointed....she may just joking around at that time, but anyway, it was a good experience for me.

[captured_prize]

Your desires are completely understandable. As others have said, many people on this board share your desires, myself included.

From my own experience, I used to think I was werid or that there was something wrong with me because I liked to crossdress while doing bondage. My fantasies revolve around me being a kidnapped damsel in distress. However, as I explored around the internet, I found that others shared my interest. It made me feel a lot better about my desires and helped me accept who I am.

[16cftelesales]

Your desires are completely understandable. As others have said, many people on this board share your desires, myself included.

From my own experience, I used to think I was werid or that there was something wrong with me because I liked to crossdress while doing bondage. My fantasies revolve around me being a kidnapped damsel in distress. However, as I explored around the internet, I found that others shared my interest. It made me feel a lot better about my desires and helped me accept who I am.

Handgag is one of my fantasy too, do you experience that you handgag someone or being handgagged intentionally?

[captured_prize]

[mention]16cftelesales[/mention] I just do self bondage, so I have never been handgagged. However, it is something I would enjoy.