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Telling friends

Posted: Thu May 12, 2022 10:25 pm
by Ducttapeenthusiast
I JUST OPENED UP TO MY BEST FRIEND ABOUT BEING INTO BONDAGE AND I DIDN'T LOSE HER!!!

It's such a massive weight off my shoulders, because she's the first person I've ever told.

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 11:14 am
by rtbw
Congratulations. A true friend: somebody who accepts you for who you are. You're fortunate to have somebody like that as a best friend.

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 11:35 am
by Mr Underheel
Ducttapeenthusiast wrote: 2 years ago I JUST OPENED UP TO MY BEST FRIEND ABOUT BEING INTO BONDAGE AND I DIDN'T LOSE HER!!!

It's such a massive weight off my shoulders, because she's the first person I've ever told.
That’s great! I hope it opens up new worlds for you! But “I didn’t lose her” probably wasn’t the whole goal of telling her. What was the rest of her reaction?

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 12:27 pm
by Ducttapeenthusiast
Mr Underheel wrote: 2 years ago
Ducttapeenthusiast wrote: 2 years ago I JUST OPENED UP TO MY BEST FRIEND ABOUT BEING INTO BONDAGE AND I DIDN'T LOSE HER!!!

It's such a massive weight off my shoulders, because she's the first person I've ever told.
That’s great! I hope it opens up new worlds for you! But “I didn’t lose her” probably wasn’t the whole goal of telling her. What was the rest of her reaction?
She didn't really have one, just that she doesn't think any less of me because of it. The goal of telling her was just to have the weight off my chest and she seemed like she would be a safe person given her openness about what she enjoys.

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 3:32 pm
by FelixSH
I'm glad that worked out for you. Honestly, if someone stops being your friend because of this, they aren't worth your time, anyway. Easier said than done, I know. But in any case, great that it worked out, and that you now could at least mention stuff, in case you need to talk to someone.

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 3:28 pm
by SweetSwitch
Very nice, that's mean is a true friend, lucky you

Re: Telling friends

Posted: Mon May 23, 2022 3:37 pm
by BondageBoyUK
That's good to hear. I've never been able to tell anyone and feel like it would be a massive weight off my shoulders but I just worry about them disapproving so for now it's only for me and the many members of this site to know about.