Ups and downs in the search of play partners

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Mister The Edge
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Ups and downs in the search of play partners

Post by Mister The Edge »

So I am married, he/him, 37, dom/switch, American. My wife isn't big on BDSM so I can play non-sexually with others. I have had some success in getting out there. I've had two play partners and several one-off scenes with others. The panademic mostly killed my local BDSM scene though. I currently have a play partner who is open to a lot but still has her limits. I'm always looking to play but I've been in an emotional funk myself since the Pandemic. I'm starting to get back out there though🤷.

I know not everyone has the same success in finding play partners for various reasons. Location, confidence, safety need, etc. But keep it up. It can take time to find people you vibe with in that way.