What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 2:21 pm
As the question suggests.
Probably my favorite is a harness ball gag over a leather hood. Love it!
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Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 2:53 pm
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 5:12 pm
Just a basic ball gag.
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 5:32 pm
I've found handcuffs to be quite uncomfortable for tight or "struggling" bondage. Leather belts are ok, especially the wide ones.
I have been disappointed by the various ballgags and panel gags I have tried. They're effective but only when they're tight, and when they're tight I do not recommend wearing them for more than 15 or 20 minutes at a time. The best panel/ball combo I found was on etsy; https://www.etsy.com/listing/1161833435 ... rs=1&sts=1
This one fits alright despite my mouth being more than a little bigger than average (adult male 6' 3") and I ordered the 2" ball because I have a big mouth but like I said limit use time. I actually prefer to remove gags and replace them throughout a scene so the 20 minute rule doesn't bother me, its just that to me these gags are bit more severe than I usually am going for in a scene and playing with cloth and a little vetwrap or tape is just more fun for me, a bit of creativity.
I will say that when you order your ball/panel gags, get something that is unlikely to harbor mold. Most of the penis gags unfortunately are made with silicone and faux leather parts that can harbor moisture and bacteria. The more expensive leather panels with a ball are the way to go.
Personally though I love the look and feel of a leather belt/obi tied about the eyes or mouth. They aren't made for bondage per se but they are very useful. I prefer the overall feel of a stuffed leather belt otm gag or leather belt otm over clother knotted cleave gag to these professional jobs. Best material for a knotted cloth gag that ive found are large cloth diapers or dish towels (for big mouths, a big knot is needed, so I recommend 27x27in or more).
To each their own, I was never a big fan of the mainstream gear and after giving some of the stuff a try, I suggest that people also look into easier to conceal and more conventional hemp rope (rawganique is a great source) and cloth/tape gags before making big purchases in the way of the discrete leather toys.
I have been disappointed by the various ballgags and panel gags I have tried. They're effective but only when they're tight, and when they're tight I do not recommend wearing them for more than 15 or 20 minutes at a time. The best panel/ball combo I found was on etsy; https://www.etsy.com/listing/1161833435 ... rs=1&sts=1
This one fits alright despite my mouth being more than a little bigger than average (adult male 6' 3") and I ordered the 2" ball because I have a big mouth but like I said limit use time. I actually prefer to remove gags and replace them throughout a scene so the 20 minute rule doesn't bother me, its just that to me these gags are bit more severe than I usually am going for in a scene and playing with cloth and a little vetwrap or tape is just more fun for me, a bit of creativity.
I will say that when you order your ball/panel gags, get something that is unlikely to harbor mold. Most of the penis gags unfortunately are made with silicone and faux leather parts that can harbor moisture and bacteria. The more expensive leather panels with a ball are the way to go.
Personally though I love the look and feel of a leather belt/obi tied about the eyes or mouth. They aren't made for bondage per se but they are very useful. I prefer the overall feel of a stuffed leather belt otm gag or leather belt otm over clother knotted cleave gag to these professional jobs. Best material for a knotted cloth gag that ive found are large cloth diapers or dish towels (for big mouths, a big knot is needed, so I recommend 27x27in or more).
To each their own, I was never a big fan of the mainstream gear and after giving some of the stuff a try, I suggest that people also look into easier to conceal and more conventional hemp rope (rawganique is a great source) and cloth/tape gags before making big purchases in the way of the discrete leather toys.
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 9:06 pm
As [mention]leconteur[/mention] said, I was pretty disappointed the first time I tried handcuffs. Leather belts, straps, and other restraints found in a kinky store are much more comfortable.
Apart from what I mentioned, I have also worn a ball gag, a leather blindfold and a pair of clover clamps. Other stuff I own isn't strictly bondage gear (tape, rope...)
Apart from what I mentioned, I have also worn a ball gag, a leather blindfold and a pair of clover clamps. Other stuff I own isn't strictly bondage gear (tape, rope...)
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2023 10:22 pm
Do clover clamps hurt as much as I have been told? A LOT!lanadelgagged wrote: ↑1 year ago As @leconteur said, I was pretty disappointed the first time I tried handcuffs. Leather belts, straps, and other restraints found in a kinky store are much more comfortable.
Apart from what I mentioned, I have also worn a ball gag, a leather blindfold and a pair of clover clamps. Other stuff I own isn't strictly bondage gear (tape, rope...)
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 7:46 am
Amy one tried diapers?
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 10:45 am
Had been Tied up with cable ties once i got tied up against my will. A little too tight
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 11:48 am
Not yet in RL. It will happen soon enough in non-bondage contexts.
As for the original question, I've worn (not in public)
+ waist cincher/corset
+ handcuffs
+ locking-buckled leather cuffs and belts
+ buckled ball gag
+ panel gag-head-harness
+ padded leather blindfold
+ buckled leather arm binder
+ ballet boots (once only, got rid of those)
+ skin-tight spandex cat suit
+ colour coordinated tights and leotard (I've worn this last one hidden under regular street clothes in public)
One of my dreams would be to eventually have enough cash (and courage) to contact a particular corset maker in the UK and have a bespoke locking corset made. For now, I just lock one of my bondage leather belts around my cincher.
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:16 pm
Yes... Trust me they do even if you don't have sensitive nipples. They may not hurt at first, but the longer you wear them the most painful it becomes to removeAmyRu wrote: ↑1 year agoDo clover clamps hurt as much as I have been told? A LOT!lanadelgagged wrote: ↑1 year ago As @leconteur said, I was pretty disappointed the first time I tried handcuffs. Leather belts, straps, and other restraints found in a kinky store are much more comfortable.
Apart from what I mentioned, I have also worn a ball gag, a leather blindfold and a pair of clover clamps. Other stuff I own isn't strictly bondage gear (tape, rope...)
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 1:20 pm
Oh, I trust you! I don’t understand the mechanics of how they work but they sound so mean! Do you put them on in self-bondage situations? Or does one cruel person put them in you?lanadelgagged wrote: ↑1 year agoYes... Trust me they do even if you don't have sensitive nipples. They may not hurt at first, but the longer you wear them the most painful it becomes to removeAmyRu wrote: ↑1 year agoDo clover clamps hurt as much as I have been told? A LOT!lanadelgagged wrote: ↑1 year ago As @leconteur said, I was pretty disappointed the first time I tried handcuffs. Leather belts, straps, and other restraints found in a kinky store are much more comfortable.
Apart from what I mentioned, I have also worn a ball gag, a leather blindfold and a pair of clover clamps. Other stuff I own isn't strictly bondage gear (tape, rope...)
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2023 4:05 pm
I forgot to mention that I've worn 'clover' clamps before! Yes! deliciously painful for a masochist like myself: I usually put them on myself, when commanded to do so by my wife as part of my self-bondage ritual, just before she checks my bonds and fastens the final locks into place to make my self-bondage inescapable. It's the removal by wife (and random cycles of re-application--removal) that is, for lack of a single word "deliciously, compassionately, CRUEL and PAINFUL!!!"
(Could 'clover' also double up to mean "'c'ruel-'lover'?)
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Fri Mar 24, 2023 5:14 am
A big leather harness across my chest.
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Fri Mar 24, 2023 11:01 am
What about a chasitity belt?
Re: What other bondage gear have you worn (adults)
Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2023 10:35 am