M/M best aspects and experiences

[Haunts]

Hey guys, for the M/M crowd. What aspect of M/M tie up situations do you guys most enjoy both irl and reading about?

For me, I really like the lead up to the tie up scene how does one guy get chosen to be tied up over another. Do they submit? Are they overpowered? Did they lose a bet?

For me I also like guys being tied up in regular clothes ideally in white socks and having a good portion of the scene in that state until it naturally progresses or not.

Finally, I love the moment where the tied guy realizes he's utterly dominated. What that looks like and feels like is great and how that submission is communicated.

Would love to hear your guys' thoughts would be good inspiration for other stories.