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Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 3:03 pm
by CapturedKim
I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2020 2:52 pm
by RotiferTape
CapturedKim wrote: 3 years ago I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2020 3:38 pm
by CapturedKim
RotiferTape wrote: 3 years ago
CapturedKim wrote: 3 years ago I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.
"Rope Bunny"....I love that, ha ha!

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2020 4:13 pm
by Nainur
RotiferTape wrote: 3 years ago
CapturedKim wrote: 3 years ago I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.
That's a very nice phrase!

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed Apr 29, 2020 4:48 pm
by kiwi
RotiferTape wrote: 3 years ago
CapturedKim wrote: 3 years ago I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.
Lol I can’t believe I never thought of it that way but it describes me perfectly too 😂.
shoutout to the other bunnies I suppose

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Fri May 01, 2020 7:46 pm
by RopePup44
100% sub, I love being tied up, gagged and the idea of being held captive/kidnapped. I'm a rope bunny but also a pup so hense the name Ropepup :p

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Sun May 03, 2020 9:55 pm
by Viperbound7
A switch, I appreciate the feeling of being gagged, or gagging others ;-)

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed May 06, 2020 3:52 am
by Switcher1313
I mostly want to do the tying up, but I sometimes allow my female partner to bind me and have her wicked way with me. :D

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Wed May 06, 2020 3:53 am
by Switcher1313
RotiferTape wrote: 3 years ago
CapturedKim wrote: 3 years ago I guess....sub?

I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.
Rope Bunny seems popular with those who practice shibari or Japanese bondage.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Sat May 23, 2020 10:22 pm
by Nightly Binds
I'd say Male switch even though never really been tied up by another or tied others ( mainly done some self bondage ), though when I RP tugs, I mostly like to be on the submissive side as I love the thought of being Tied up and humiliated :D but I can occasionally also be a dom as well :)

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Fri May 29, 2020 10:13 pm
by MissEmpressive
I occasionally switch depending on situations for example when I was 16 I tied up my mum as an anniversary gift for my dad. When he would come home her tied up would surprise him, I also tied up a couple of my girls during our uni days nothing too serious just hands in front taped with masking tape and a single strip gag. I am usually tied by my partners during BDSM play as I usually play the sub with other guys.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Sun May 31, 2020 9:44 am
by RopingRingers
I haven't had much experience either way to know for sure exactly, when I fantasize im usually a dom but most of my limited experience is being bound which I do find relaxing.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2020 11:40 am
by malebondageNE
I'm a dom, very much into tying and gagging other guys.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Sun Jun 21, 2020 11:16 pm
by LatexLover
malebondageNE wrote: 3 years ago I'm a dom, very much into tying and gagging other guys.
Too bad you’re across the ocean

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Mon Jun 22, 2020 2:32 am
by herdfaninrva
Primarily Dom but definitely want to be the one tied up sometimes. Only play with naturally-born ladies.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2020 9:12 am
by NWswitch1701
I don't know for sure, as I haven't had much real experience, but I consider myself a switch. I can imagine being on either side... and loving it.

Dom switch or sub

Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2020 11:08 pm
by GladysMor
Oh I see what you mean now. But isnt being Dom like what you said about telling the Sub what to wear, how to look etc. Sort of like controlling, obsessive, etc.

Re: Dom switch or sub

Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2020 3:37 pm
by NWswitch1701
GladysMor wrote: 3 years ago Oh I see what you mean now. But isnt being Dom like what you said about telling the Sub what to wear, how to look etc. Sort of like controlling, obsessive, etc.
Yes and no. It really varies from person to person, play partner to play partner. On a base level for this site, it's generally assumed that the dom is the one who perfers to tie, while the sub prefers being tied.

However, depending on what the play partners want out of the scene, doms may be more controlling, obsessive, demanding, keep the sub tied up for longer, etc.
The important thing is that there is agreement between dom and sub - yes, the dom may have more control, but the sub has more power because the dom will respect their wishes.

I hope that helps. If my explanation was overly pedantic or condescending, my apologies.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Thu Jul 23, 2020 11:17 pm
by Steph0805
I think I’m a switch? Is that right? Honestly I’m not sure what kinda role I am. Personally I just like to watch!

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2020 1:10 am
by BedBondageSub
I’m a total sub

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2020 3:43 am
by Sfbayareabondagelove
Hello I am a male sub

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2020 7:29 am
by Raine
Sub. Definitely. I admit I occasionally feel dominant towards other women, but that's very rare.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2020 1:18 pm
by scarfgagged
I'd like to know who the three female doms are.
They aren't easy to find, i guess... :D

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2020 7:36 am
by Terry
100% sub, Male looking for male doms.

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2020 9:07 pm
by yorkshiredude27
Mostly dominant but become intrigued by being the one tied up