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Not sure about gender priviledge when it comes to young subjects, though. There's a woman on DA doing female bondage, quite equivalent to what I do with males, and she is enraged by the tolerance we guys enjoy when it comes to kids content. She says teenage girls tied up by adults raise far more outcry, and she's certainly right. Male on male is more 'blurry' to most, when male on female shouts "sex" to everyone...
And like you said, the many TUG scenes in pop culture for guys act like a kind of excuse. Sorry girls... How unfair, but that's for your own protection (grinnin' smiley)