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1- What do you identify yourself most as, Dom, Sub, Switch? Sub
2- Why would you consider yourself as that, (personality traits that portray what you identified yourself as) ? I like being told what to do, it is a more pleasurable experience for me if somebody else is in control. I like pleasing people and doing things that may just be fantasies for others.
3- What do you think your most attractive feature is? (it can be something you're proud of but has to be physical)- I have veneers so everyone compliments my teeth/smile. I think I'm pretty damn cute when I wink and give a flirtatious half smile.
4- What you admire most about someone else's physical features/ the first thing you notice? Umm I love when a man has strong shoulders and a built chest.
5- What do you need in a sub or dom depending on which you identify as? From a subs POV I need the other person to be in control, I like testing people, pushing their buttons, I need someone who will put me in my place.
6- Subs, do you like physical pain (what kind?) Doms, do you get pleasure from your subs physical pain? I do not get turned on by being hit like some do, it makes me mad. I do however like tight bondage, having my body be pulled, stretched, twisted. I like when a dom will test what I can take. That feeling of thinking something is "too tight" or straining positions that I'm forced to be left in a long time really turns me on.
7- What is something that turns you off immediately during a bondage session? Food being involved ( Like sexually)
8- What is something you can improve on within yourself to be a better sub or dom? I make it pretty obvious when I do not like something or object to an order. A eye roll, a mad breath, glare, I sometimes don't even realize I'm doing it. I definitely think I can hide my non verbal acts of defiance or dis appreciation better. I usually will obey quickly but if I'm mad it will be followed with a non verbal gesture.
9- What is something you think is important to do before a bondage session with a new person? maybe just talk about anything you absolutely are not okay with or that can be pertinent. I'm not one for telling someone what I like, that's their job to figure out.
10- Is there someone you are most comfortable doing bondage with and why? My older brother, because hes not going to go easy on me but I also trust him 110% on most days hahaha.
11- Do you think it is important to discuss your bondage desires with your significant other, do you? Uh yeah! I know what I want and I'm not giving up my desires because someone is Vanilla.
12- Did any of these questions help you think about things in a different way about yourself or help you recognize what you like/dislike? (Where any of the questions hard for you to answer?) -YEs I wrote them and I was still thinking hard about every answer I wrote. Some I thought were easy to answer gave me the biggest mindfuck.